Tuesday, June 14, 2011

SENSITIVITY



Being sensitive comes handy in any relationship. The ability to observe people and know their strengths and weaknesses can make for an interesting relationship.
Allow people be themselves around you. Sure you can’t always like the habits or traits they exhibit and that’s where being sensitive comes to bear.

SENSITIVITY is the innate ability to temper justice with mercy, it’s recognizing that both of you are not looking from the same lens. People’s lenses suffer minor or major damages over the years and you’ll discover that if you were to exchange lenses, you’ll see things exactly as the other person sees it.

So before judging and telling the truth as you see it, take a deep breath and try to understand why these other person sees the matter the way he or she does. What this does is to help soften your approach to correcting the person and you might surprise yourself by discovering that you were in the wrong after all.
The best thing that will happen is that the person knows that you feel and see what he or she feels and sees. You UNDERSTAND. That is one of the greatest gifts you can give anybody.

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